Rebecca Lucy Taylor (born 15 October 1986),[1] also known by her
stage nameSelf Esteem, is a British musician, songwriter and actress.[2] First known as one half of the band
Slow Club, she launched a solo career as Self Esteem with the single "Your Wife" in 2017, followed by the albums Compliments Please in 2019 and Prioritise Pleasure in 2021. A multi-instrumentalist, vocalist, songwriter and theatre composer, she is winner of the 2021 BBC Music Introducing Artist of the Year Award and Prioritise Pleasure was nominated for the 2022
Mercury Prize. From September 2023 to March 2024 she performed the lead role of
Sally Bowles in the
West End production of Cabaret.
Early life
Taylor was born and grew up in
Rotherham,
England, UK. Her father was a steelworker and an amateur musician in a band,[3] and her mother was a secretary.[4] She attended
Wales High School in Rotherham where she credits music teacher Antony Wright with teaching her to sing.[5] Her main interests as a child were music, dance[3] and
cricket[6][7] and she has described herself as a "choir nerd" while at school.[8]
Taylor was previously a member of folk duo
Slow Club, which formed in
Sheffield in 2006. The band consisted of multi-instrumentalists Charles Watson and Taylor, with Watson on the piano, Taylor on the drums, and both performing guitars and vocals.[9][10] The band paused working in 2017,[11] following an extensive tour to support their last album, owing to differing musical interests and Taylor feeling unfulfilled.[12][4] Slow Club's final tour in the winter of 2016, and Taylor's dissatisfaction and unhappiness with the band, was captured in the documentary Our Most Brilliant Friends, directed by Piers Dennis and released in 2018.[13][14]
2015–2020: The appearance of Self Esteem and Compliments Please
Taylor started posting art and short notes on
Instagram under the name Self Esteem in 2015.[15][16] Prior to releasing music under the name, she used Self Esteem for a range of artistic projects including an exhibition of paintings and prints,[17] and short films.[18][19] Speaking about her stage name, Taylor has said she decided on the name around six years before she started using it,[17] and that "I wanted to call it Sex Appeal or Self Esteem...cos band names are bad, there's no good ones. But I probably should have just called it Rebecca Lucy Taylor!".[20] A big fan of
Queen, she based her logo on
Freddie Mercury's signature.[21]
Taylor was inspired with the confidence to pursue a solo career after watching RuPaul's Drag Race – "that whole ethos of not being ashamed to be confident or brilliant".[22] She credits
Jamie T with encouraging her to release her music after she shared some of her early solo work with him;[17] his 2016 album
Trick ends with a track called "Self Esteem". Taylor released her first music under the Self Esteem moniker, the single "Your Wife", in September 2017, with "OMG" as a B-side. The track was released on Kick + Clap, a label run by
Django Django member Dave MacLean.[23] Her first live show as Self Esteem was in October 2017 at
Margate Arts Club.[24] Taylor went on to feature on the Django Django track "Surface to Air", which appeared on the band's 2018 album Marble Skies.[25]
Tracks for the Self Esteem debut album Compliments Please were recorded from January to September 2018, and Taylor signed a solo deal with
Fiction Records in April 2018.[26] During the period of recording she played live at
Latitude,
Tramlines and a sold out show at Omeara Theatre London,[27] followed by an eight-show
UK tour in autumn 2018.[28] The first single "Wrestling" was released in July 2018 followed by "Rollout" in September 2018, "The Best" in January 2019 and "Girl Crush" in February 2019.[29]Compliments Please was released on 1 March 2019 on Fiction Records.[30] It was well received critically, with an average rating of 80/100 according to
Metacritic.[31] A deluxe version was released in October 2019 with an additional track "Rooms".[32] In March 2019 Self Esteem completed an 11-date UK tour in support of the album release[33] and played at UK festivals including
Glastonbury,
British Summer Time and Latitude.[34][35] In December 2019 she released a standalone single, "All I Want for Christmas Is a Work Email", recorded at
Abbey Road Studios.[36]
On 1 May 2020, Self Esteem released the Cuddles Please EP,[37] with stripped down versions of tracks from Compliments Please – "Favourite Problem", "The Best" and "In Time" – along with a cover of "Miami Memory" by
Alex Cameron. The EP features Neighbourhood Voices, a
Sheffield-based female choir. In the early months of the
COVID-19 pandemic in 2020 she organised an online all-female festival, Pxssy Pandemique, to raise money for
Women's Aid.[38]
Much of the Self Esteem second album was written before the
COVID-19 pandemic that caused intermittent public health restrictions in the UK from March 2020 onwards. These restrictions delayed its recording and release. The record was co-written, recorded and produced with Johan Hugo Karlberg, the producer who also worked on Compliments Please.
The first single from the album, "I Do This All the Time" was released in April 2021.[39] Largely spoken word, and consequently compared to
Baz Luhrmann's "
Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen)",[citation needed] Taylor said that "I went into this studio in Sheffield just to experiment, and I ended up building the backing track up, and just reading out my iPhone notes in a row".[40]
The single was a huge critical and commercial success, and was praised by
Tracey Thorn and by
Jack Antonoff.[4] It represented Taylor's first big music industry breakthrough. In a 2021 interview she said that she had previously lied about her age and said she was 25, and that it took her "a while to be proud" of breaking into the industry in her thirties.[4]
In July, she released the title track and announced that the record, Prioritise Pleasure, would coincide with a UK tour in October of the same year.[41] In August, Self Esteem released the third single, "How Can I Help You".[42] Taylor directed the music videos for those singles, filming all three at the
Almeida Theatre.[42] In September, the single "Moody" was released.[43] The video for "Moody" was directed by Louise Bhose and features comedian
Alistair Green alongside Taylor.[44][45] In October, Self Esteem released "You Forever", the final single preceding the album.[46]
The Guardian, The Sunday Times and Gigwise ranked Prioritise Pleasure as the best album of 2021.[47][48][49]NME ranked the album as the fourth best of 2021.[50]The Guardian named "I Do This All The Time" as the best song of 2021.[51]
During 2022 Self Esteem played a sold-out Prioritise Pleasure tour and they also played 30 festivals. Taylor composed the soundtrack for the
West End Production of
Suzie Miller's play Prima Facie starring
Jodie Comer, which was released on 14 June 2022.[52] She described her connection with the production by saying the play "deals with similar issues" as Prioritise Pleasure, including heartbreak, sexism and misogyny. Prima Facie was awarded
Best New Play at the
2023 Laurence Olivier Awards.
In an interview for the podcast series Talk Art in July 2022 Taylor discussed the demo for a new song that contains the refrain "I can't be arsed", a phrase also included in the video for "Moody", stating that "essentially, album three has begun now".[53] Speaking about the budget constraints she has faced as a new artist, she has said that "I'm so glad I haven't achieved what I want to achieve quite yet, because imagine if I had access to an orchestra or a full choir. That's what excites me about album three".[54]
The 2023 live tour in support of Prioritise Pleasure, the I Tour This All The Time tour, was announced in March 2022 and originally consisted of 11 dates.[55] Due to popularity of ticket sales, another 10 dates were added to the final tour which sold out before it commenced in February 2023.[56] The tour played to 43,000 people including three nights at London's
Eventim Apollo, three nights at
Manchester's
Albert Hall, and two nights at Taylor's home town
O2 Academy Sheffield. During the UK tour Self Esteem performed two new, unreleased songs – "Mother" and "Love Second".[57][58]
Self Esteem played UK festivals in summer 2023 including Neighbourhood Weekender,
Green Man, Bristol Sounds,
Standon Calling,
Parklife and
Truck, and supported
Blur at their
Wembley Stadium gig on 8 July.[59] On 21 July, Taylor performed at the opening night of the
BBC Proms festival in
Sage Gateshead, the BBC's first outside of London.[60] Her performance consisted of 12 songs from her two solo albums, plus a cover of
George Michael's "
Praying for Time".[61] The tracks were arranged for the
Royal Northern Sinfonia by
Robert Ames, who also served as conductor, and Matt Rogers.[62] In September, Self Esteem headlined a tour-closing show – billed as the last of the Prioritise Pleasure era – at Don Valley Bowl in Sheffield.[63]
A number of standalone songs, many collaborations, were released by Self Esteem during 2023. In February, Django Django released "Complete Me" which features Self Esteem on vocals, from their album Off Planet.[64] In June, Self Esteem released an acoustic cover of "
You Are So Beautiful", originally written and recorded by
Billy Preston and popularised by
Joe Cocker. With
Craig Armstrong, Taylor recorded a cover of "Black Eyed Dog" for the
Nick Drake covers compilation album, The Endless Coloured Ways: The Songs of Nick Drake, released in July 2023.[65] Taylor was also one of the singers on the unofficial anthem for the England
Women's World Cupteam, "Call Me a Lioness".[66]
Taylor was made an honorary Doctor of Music at the
University of Sheffield on 17 July 2023 "in recognition of her success in the music industry and public championing of inclusivity and diversity".[67][68] She has also been recognised with a photographic portrait hung in the
National Portrait Gallery in London.[69]
Style and influences
Self Esteem's music is characterised by its prominent drum rhythms, female choral elements[8] and powerful, precisely articulated lead vocals, often alongside organs, distorted guitars and string arrangements. Taylor has said "I love heavy beat and heavy bass, I love strings, I love choir, and I love big, cinematic sounds".[8] Self Esteem has been described as
pop,
art pop,
experimental pop and
indie/alternative pop; Taylor herself has said that she dislikes it being described as "indie".[6] Her lyrics and vocal delivery are central to the songs: she has been described as "one of the best lyricists of her generation"[70] and as having live vocals "so clear and pure they could wake bears from hibernation".[70] She writes songs on guitar before arranging them with other musicians.[20] Taylor has described herself and her producer Johan Hugo Karlberg as being "obsessed" with
Kanye West,[71] and she has cited a range of other influences including
Madonna,
Destiny's Child,
Rihanna,
Outkast,
Queen,
Fleetwood Mac,
Neil Young,
Kate Bush,
Max Richter,
Arctic Monkeys, and
Lady Gaga.[2][40][72][73][74] Although she has worked with other musicians on Self Esteem, Taylor has used the project to channel her own undiluted ideas, in constrast to her experience with Slow Club where she felt she constantly had to compromise, saying "I hate this idea that compromise and collaboration is the only way to make something good".[6][20]
Taylor's lyrics are typically written in direct, colloquial language: "All I care about are people and the things they do. I'm interested in horrible life, and lyrics are the horrible life bit for me".[75] Lyrically she explores themes around relationships, self-criticism, sex, mental health, misogyny, objectification, female empowerment and feminism.[22] Her lyrics are unusual in that they are self-critical and confessional, embracing and exploring her own shortcomings and mistakes, as well as those of others.[53][76] They often contain reference to
internet culture including texting, sexting and social media; in images and videos she is often pictured holding or using a mobile phone,[77] and she frequently releases lines of lyrics or poetry on Instagram in the
Apple Notes app.[78]
"I'm obsessed with harmony and choral stuff, and a lot of what I write I think, this doesn't sound great now but when it's got four or five harmonies on it, it will. And, yeah, I proved myself right!"
Rebecca Lucy Taylor, BBC Introducing X Abbey Road Studios, December 2019
Since they first started touring in 2018, the Self Esteem live band has featured Taylor on lead vocals, 2–3 dancing backing vocalists, a drummer and keyboard/bass player. Taylor has said that she began to be bored by live music performances, and became determined to put on an entertaining show with Self Esteem.[3] The live shows are known for their energetic performances,[70] with Taylor and her dancers performing choreographed routines throughout. Taylor has said that the Prioritise Pleasure tours were inspired by Madonna's 1990
Blond Ambition Tour,[40][79] and other writers have drawn comparisons with
Pussycat Dolls choreography.[80] Since the release of Prioritise Pleasure, audience members have taken to barking at Self Esteem shows[22] in homage to a voice note at the end of "I'm Fine" in which a woman describes herself and friends barking like dogs when approached by a group of men, as a form of self-protection.
Self Esteem members coordinate their clothing at live shows often wearing identical slogan t-shirts (see below) and on occasions in
Sheffield Wednesday shirts. Taylor has worn notable outfits at
Glastonbury performances – in 2019, a dress made from
Boots Advantage (loyalty) cards,[81] and in 2022 a corset with a bra shaped like the domes of Sheffield's
Meadowhall shopping centre.[82] In December 2023 she released a limited edition t-shirt depicting the Meadowhall corset, to raise money for breast cancer charity
Breast Cancer Now.[83]
Ten of Self Esteem's singles have been accompanied by music videos.[84] Many of these have been directed by Piers Dennis who worked on the Slow Club documentary Our Most Brilliant Friends. The video for "The Best" was filmed on the set of an art installation by Taylor's good friend Lindsey Mendick.[53] Videos for "How Can I Help You", "Prioritise Pleasure" and "I Do This All The Time" were filmed at
Almeida Theatre and directed by Taylor.
Self Esteem makes use of recurrent slogans that appear on clothing worn by the band live and in videos, and shown on the live backdrop which is usually black with white capital letters. Some of these slogans derive from Self Esteem lyrics and others make related political and artistic statements. These include:
"Prioritise Pleasure" – first seen on t-shirts worn by the band during the Compliments Please live shows;[85] subsequently the title of the second album; often used as a live backdrop. She has emphasised that the message of "Prioritise Pleasure" as about valuing self worth and self love in the face of social expectations, pressures and fears faced by women, and "that not being indulgent and that not being selfish"[86]
"Believe Women" – worn on t-shirts by dancers Marged Siôn and
Genesis Lynea in the video for "Rollout",[77] a statement in support of women reporting their experience of
sexual harassment, abuse and violence
"Remember You Don't Owe Them Anything" – printed on the gatefold of Compliments Please; Taylor wears a t-shirt with this slogan in the video for "In Time";[87] features in the lyrics for "Girl Crush"; and printed in the credits of Prioritise Pleasure.
"Keep Lyrics Uncomfortable" – featured on the bass drum skin on Self Esteem live gigs in 2021 and 2022[80][7]
"But there is nothing that terrifies a man more than a woman that appears completely deranged" – words from a voice note that appears at the end of "I'm Fine"
"97%" – featured on a tie worn by Taylor on live TV shows including The Graham Norton Show and The Late Late Show with James Corden, and on a pin badge worn on her suit during the 2023 tour. The statistic refers to a
YouGov survey in 2021 which found that 97% of UK women aged 18 to 24 years old had experienced sexual harassment[88][89]
"Let Me Be Gorgeous In Peace" – displayed on the bass drum skin during the 2023 tour, along with an image of
Sarah Lancashire as
Catherine Cawood; also a line from the unreleased track "Love Second"
Band personnel
Taylor has emphasised the importance of her collaborators on Self Esteem, saying "I like to think of [Self Esteem] as a sort of collective of people...I've got this real, like, family which is something I've always dreamed of".[20]
Earlier in her career, Taylor acted in live[106] and filmed[107] sketches for the comedy group Seldom Differ. The group subsequently produced a short promotional mockumentary interview for Compliments Please.[108]
Taylor appeared in series two of I Hate Suzie in 2022, which starred
Billie Piper as the title character Suzie Pickles.[109] She featured as Farrah in the 2023 Sky TV comedy series Smothered[110] and appears in the
Film4 romance film Layla to be released in 2024.[111]
Taylor has spoken about how working with a therapist has improved her mental health, and its importance to the development of her career as Self Esteem.[40]
In interviews Taylor has described herself as bisexual[72] and has discussed how her sexuality relates to her music, characterising "Girl Crush" as a "bi-bop".[2]