Virginia was born on January 2, 1875, in
San Francisco, California. She was the daughter of
James Graham Fair (1831–1894) and his wife, Theresa Rooney (1838–1891). Her parents divorced when she was six. She was known throughout her life as "Birdie". She had three siblings,
Theresa Fair Oelrichs, James Fair Jr. (1861–1892), and Charles Lewis Fair (1867–1902).[1]
In 1899, Birdie Vanderbilt and her sister Theresa "Tessie" Fair Oelrichs built the
Rosecliff mansion in
Newport, Rhode Island.[2] In 1902, the sisters began construction of the
Fairmont Hotel in
San Francisco but sold their interests in 1906, days before the
1906 San Francisco earthquake. However, following the death of her husband, Tessie Fair Oelrichs repurchased the property in 1908, retaining ownership until 1924. In 1910, Birdie set up the Virginia Fair Legacy Fund that rebuilt and endowed the Holy Family Day Home, a Roman Catholic school residence for children in San Francisco that had been damaged by the 1906 earthquake.[2]
Birdie Vanderbilt also spent considerable time in
Paris,
France, where tragedy struck in 1902 when her brother Charles and his wife were killed in an automobile accident. In 1920, her estranged husband, who also maintained a home in the Parisian suburb of
Passy, inherited the
Haras du Quesnay Thoroughbred breeding farm and racing stable near
Deauville in France's famous horse region of
Lower Normandy. Interested in horse racing herself, Birdie established her own racing stable in the United States. Named
Fair Stable, she met with great success with the
ThoroughbredSarazen, who earned back-to-back
U.S. Horse of the Year honors in 1924 and 1925 and would be inducted into the United States'
National Museum of Racing and Hall of Fame.
In 1933, tragedy struck her family again when her 26-year-old son, William Kissam Vanderbilt III, was killed in an automobile accident in
South Carolina while driving home to New York City from his father's Florida estate.[3]
Personal life
On March 26, 1899, Virginia Graham Fair married
William Kissam Vanderbilt II, a sportsman and president of the
New York Central Railroad.[4][5] They spent their honeymoon at the Idle Hour estate but disaster struck when fire broke out and the mansion burned to the ground. They settled in a mansion at 666
Fifth Avenue in
New York City and had three children before their separation and divorce:
William Kissam Vanderbilt III (1907–1933), who inherited his father's love of fast cars and exotic travel was killed in an automobile accident in
South Carolina while driving home to New York City from his father's Florida estate.[3][17][18]
The couple separated around 1909, but because she was a devout
Roman Catholic and they had been married by the Church, they did not formally divorce until 1927, when her husband wanted to remarry.[19] After their separation, she continued to use the Vanderbilt name but also did much under her maiden name.[20] She began dividing her time between homes in
Manhattan,
Jericho,
Long Island, and in her native California. Her mansion at
60 East 93rd Street later became the Permanent Mission of
Romania to the
United Nations, then part of the
Lycée Français de New York until 2000, when it was sold to be converted back to a private residence.