Feeling of embarrassment from observing the embarrassing actions of another person
Vicarious embarrassment (also known as secondhand, empathetic, or third-party embarrassment and also as Spanish shame[1][2] or Fremdschämen in German[3][4]) is the feeling of
embarrassment from observing the embarrassing actions of another person. Unlike general embarrassment, vicarious embarrassment is not the feelings of embarrassment for yourself or for your own actions, but instead by feeling embarrassment for somebody else after witnessing (verbally and/or visually) that other person experiences an embarrassing event. These
emotions can be perceived as
pro-social, and some say they can be seen as motives for following socially and culturally acceptable behavior.[5][6]
Vicarious embarrassment (German:
Fremdscham) is often seen as an opposite to schadenfreude, which is the feeling of pleasure or satisfaction at misfortune, humiliation or embarrassment of another person.[7][8]
Vicarious embarrassment is different from an
emotional contagion, which is when a person
unconsciously mimics the emotions that others are experiencing.[9] An emotional contagion is experienced by both people, making it a
shared emotion. Vicarious embarrassment often occurs even when the individual experiencing the embarrassing event might not be aware of the implications. For an act to be considered an emotional contagion, more than one person must be affected by the emotion, but in vicarious emotions, it is only necessary that the observer experience the emotion.[10] Furthermore, vicarious embarrassment can be experienced even when the observer is completely isolated.[11][12][13]
Vicarious embarrassment, like other vicarious emotions, presents symptoms that reflect the original emotion. However, unlike shared emotions, the experience of embarrassment for the observer is dependent on how they normally experience embarrassment. Individuals who experience
social anxiety in their own life may experience the familiar symptoms of
blushing,[12][14]excess sweating,
trembling,
palpitations, and
nausea.[15][16] Other, less severe symptoms may include
cringing, looking away, or
general discomfort.
Psychological basis
Empathy
Vicarious embarrassment, also known as empathetic embarrassment, is intrinsically linked to empathy.
Empathy is the ability to understand the feelings of another and is considered a highly reinforcing emotion to promote
selflessness,
prosocial behavior,[14] and
group emotion, whereas a lack of empathy is related to
antisocial behavior.[17][18] During an embarrassing situation, the observer empathizes with the victim of embarrassment, assuming the feeling of embarrassment. People who have more empathy are more likely to be susceptible to vicarious embarrassment.[13] The capacity to recognize emotions is probably innate,[19] as it may be achieved unconsciously. Yet it can be trained and achieved with various degrees of intensity or accuracy.[20]
Self-projection
Psychological projection is a theory in
psychology and
psychoanalysis in which humans defend themselves against undesirable emotions by
denying their existence in themselves while
attributing them to others.[21] Projection is considered a normal and common process in everyday life.[22] Vicarious embarrassment and other vicarious emotions, however, work in the reverse, a process called self-projection. The undesirable emotion is experienced in another person, and the observer projects what they interpret as the appropriate response onto themselves.[23] For example, someone who lies easily might feel vicariously embarrassed if they self-project the experience of someone getting caught in a bad lie.
Cultural significance
Embarrassing situations often arise in social situations, as the result of failing to meet a social expectation, and is used to help learn what has been deemed culturally appropriate.[24][17][5][14][22] While embarrassment isolates the victim based on a cultural bias, vicarious embarrassment is used to promote prosocial behavior between the victim and the observer.[13][6]
Embarrassing situations have been used for a long time in
situational comedy,
sketch comedy,
dramatic irony, and
practical jokes. Traditionally,
laugh tracks were used to help cue the audience to laugh at appropriate times. But as laugh tracks were removed from sitcoms, embarrassing situations on television were now accompanied by silence, creating a genre known as
cringe comedy,[25][26][27] which includes many critically acclaimed sitcom television shows, such as the British television series
The Office.[28][11]
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